linear shift solenoid goes bad too often
 

I had this problem with my 1996 civic before. With an warm engine,
shifting from 2 to 3 causes the engine to rev very high for fraction
of a second. I took it to a Honda dealer and they said "Transmission
has a flare". They asked me to replace the transmission.

Then I took it to Aamco and they said linear shift solenoid need to be
replaced. It was replaced and the problem recurred in 3 months. I
asked them to go for Honda parts this time. They did that (as they
said). Again after 1 year the same problem.

It has 228K km, coolant level is okay, Transmission fluid is OK
(changed a year ago and its pink), regularly changing oils from Honda
dealership.

I know it will cost me another 400 dollars to replace the solenoid.
Any idea why its going bad so frequently? Thanks.