i know i always try to read how to do something before i do it then i read it and dont get anything out of it then i see it and it all clicks lol, but im giving myself like a whole day to do it just incase someone goes wrong and so i can take my time.

Why not check how much a new flywheel is? If its only $50 or so you might as well do that. Gettin one resurfaced is going to cost close to that much anyway, plus the time to do that as well. If you have the new one right there then its a quick easy job. If you have the extra dough, you could always try and find a lightweight one for your v6, I bet it would help you quite a bit.

yea i wanna find a lightweight one buti had to change the clutch today i couldnt really go any longer without worrying about it going out and messing something else up cause the springs were bad but i am going to look for a new lightweight flywheel and a new performance clutch and put them both in the clutch i put in today was just one from autozone it was a pretty basic one so it will do until i get the money up to get the one i want, but thanks for the help everyone :D