Dealing With A Punk
03-07-2005, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted by l_bilyk
Low-Low, man this situation is ed up, the first thing I suggest is that you find out for sure if she has a part in it, I've seen this happen a lot, the girl is involved, b/f doesn't see it, starts with the other guy, g/f gets pissed, tells b/f to off, and the b/f is screwed, he's in with the cops, with the guy and no girl. so be carefull and think about it, if he hasn't touched her and he's just e-mailing her, she should be able to block his e-mail unless she doesn't want to. good luck to you.
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03-07-2005, 04:08 PM
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UPDATE
I had a LONG LONG face to face talk with her last night. Asked her tough questions got answers, listened to her voice and saw her reactions. Found out what was going on with her "friend" that gave him her number AND email address.
Turns out buddy told her like 2 weeks ago that "he loved her" and she was like "WTF are you weird". They never met up because I've been with her every weekend and during the week she promptly calls me every night at 11pm (I'm in London for school Tues-Thurs).
Buddy doesn't have a home or cell phone because it's been disconnected for not paying the bill.
And he recently lost his "job" which, in the winter is shoveling snow sans a snowblower. So he's been sitting at home collecting welfare. His truck was recently repossessed and he lives in Whitby. 
So basically I said to her "Listen, this guys 28, he has no job, what's his ambition in life? and why doesn't he respect that you have a BF...aside from that he's 28 your 21, is he on some ?" Then I said "So what's up with him?" and she was like "Well he called me the first time and I was like who is this, but then the first words out of his mouth were 'I just got fired', so I couldn't hang up, then his cell phone and home phone were disconnected and occassionally he message me from his homosexual roommates computer and he messaged me occassionally about his "disaster of a life" and I felt bad for him so I just listened and then out of the blue he tells me he loves me for listening to him and being there for him".
So what I said is this "Listen you got two choices you can continue talking to this guy and I'm gone or you can drop him and this will be the end of it". She was like "I hate him for trying to destroy our relationship, I think he's a psycho and weird for his comments and actions" I made it clear I wasn't telling her what to do, she just had two choices. So I guess that's the end of it. I asked her if she had been leading him on and she said no and went into a big thing about what they said to each other and I guess I believe her.
I had a LONG LONG face to face talk with her last night. Asked her tough questions got answers, listened to her voice and saw her reactions. Found out what was going on with her "friend" that gave him her number AND email address.
Turns out buddy told her like 2 weeks ago that "he loved her" and she was like "WTF are you weird". They never met up because I've been with her every weekend and during the week she promptly calls me every night at 11pm (I'm in London for school Tues-Thurs).
Buddy doesn't have a home or cell phone because it's been disconnected for not paying the bill.
And he recently lost his "job" which, in the winter is shoveling snow sans a snowblower. So he's been sitting at home collecting welfare. His truck was recently repossessed and he lives in Whitby. So basically I said to her "Listen, this guys 28, he has no job, what's his ambition in life? and why doesn't he respect that you have a BF...aside from that he's 28 your 21, is he on some ?" Then I said "So what's up with him?" and she was like "Well he called me the first time and I was like who is this, but then the first words out of his mouth were 'I just got fired', so I couldn't hang up, then his cell phone and home phone were disconnected and occassionally he message me from his homosexual roommates computer and he messaged me occassionally about his "disaster of a life" and I felt bad for him so I just listened and then out of the blue he tells me he loves me for listening to him and being there for him".
So what I said is this "Listen you got two choices you can continue talking to this guy and I'm gone or you can drop him and this will be the end of it". She was like "I hate him for trying to destroy our relationship, I think he's a psycho and weird for his comments and actions" I made it clear I wasn't telling her what to do, she just had two choices. So I guess that's the end of it. I asked her if she had been leading him on and she said no and went into a big thing about what they said to each other and I guess I believe her.
03-07-2005, 05:00 PM
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this sounds like a script from cheezie bitch show.
"i hate it him for trying to ruin our relationship" Sorry, but all he wanted is to ruin your good pair of pants trying to get in them. Like he gave a about a relationship.
Anyways man, if he keeps this up, just give us all his email. I'm sure a few emails from the several TSR peeps and we can scare him to just stay with his homo room mate.
"i hate it him for trying to ruin our relationship" Sorry, but all he wanted is to ruin your good pair of pants trying to get in them. Like he gave a about a relationship.
Anyways man, if he keeps this up, just give us all his email. I'm sure a few emails from the several TSR peeps and we can scare him to just stay with his homo room mate.
03-07-2005, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Low-Low
UPDATE
I had a LONG LONG face to face talk with her last night. Asked her tough questions got answers, listened to her voice and saw her reactions. Found out what was going on with her "friend" that gave him her number AND email address.
Turns out buddy told her like 2 weeks ago that "he loved her" and she was like "WTF are you weird". They never met up because I've been with her every weekend and during the week she promptly calls me every night at 11pm (I'm in London for school Tues-Thurs).
Buddy doesn't have a home or cell phone because it's been disconnected for not paying the bill. And he recently lost his "job" which, in the winter is shoveling snow sans a snowblower. So he's been sitting at home collecting welfare. His truck was recently repossessed and he lives in Whitby.
So basically I said to her "Listen, this guys 28, he has no job, what's his ambition in life? and why doesn't he respect that you have a BF...aside from that he's 28 your 21, is he on some ?" Then I said "So what's up with him?" and she was like "Well he called me the first time and I was like who is this, but then the first words out of his mouth were 'I just got fired', so I couldn't hang up, then his cell phone and home phone were disconnected and occassionally he message me from his homosexual roommates computer and he messaged me occassionally about his "disaster of a life" and I felt bad for him so I just listened and then out of the blue he tells me he loves me for listening to him and being there for him".
So what I said is this "Listen you got two choices you can continue talking to this guy and I'm gone or you can drop him and this will be the end of it". She was like "I hate him for trying to destroy our relationship, I think he's a psycho and weird for his comments and actions" I made it clear I wasn't telling her what to do, she just had two choices. So I guess that's the end of it. I asked her if she had been leading him on and she said no and went into a big thing about what they said to each other and I guess I believe her.
I had a LONG LONG face to face talk with her last night. Asked her tough questions got answers, listened to her voice and saw her reactions. Found out what was going on with her "friend" that gave him her number AND email address.
Turns out buddy told her like 2 weeks ago that "he loved her" and she was like "WTF are you weird". They never met up because I've been with her every weekend and during the week she promptly calls me every night at 11pm (I'm in London for school Tues-Thurs).
Buddy doesn't have a home or cell phone because it's been disconnected for not paying the bill.
And he recently lost his "job" which, in the winter is shoveling snow sans a snowblower. So he's been sitting at home collecting welfare. His truck was recently repossessed and he lives in Whitby. So basically I said to her "Listen, this guys 28, he has no job, what's his ambition in life? and why doesn't he respect that you have a BF...aside from that he's 28 your 21, is he on some ?" Then I said "So what's up with him?" and she was like "Well he called me the first time and I was like who is this, but then the first words out of his mouth were 'I just got fired', so I couldn't hang up, then his cell phone and home phone were disconnected and occassionally he message me from his homosexual roommates computer and he messaged me occassionally about his "disaster of a life" and I felt bad for him so I just listened and then out of the blue he tells me he loves me for listening to him and being there for him".
So what I said is this "Listen you got two choices you can continue talking to this guy and I'm gone or you can drop him and this will be the end of it". She was like "I hate him for trying to destroy our relationship, I think he's a psycho and weird for his comments and actions" I made it clear I wasn't telling her what to do, she just had two choices. So I guess that's the end of it. I asked her if she had been leading him on and she said no and went into a big thing about what they said to each other and I guess I believe her.
My gf goes there, and we've been doing the long distance thingy for 4 years..almost done!!! Hurray April graduation. :thumbsup
Don't stress on it thought..girls are (primarily) just headaches. Oh..and sometimes it's VERY hard to believe girls..just keep your eyes/ears open for the time being.
03-07-2005, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted by l_bilyk
Whatever.. we'll just have a TSR meet on the guys front lawn
burnout contest anyone?
burnout contest anyone?
The guy will probably sue everyone for ruinin his Feng-shui lawn patch that he was going to grow medicinal marijuana on to cure all ailments, he's desparate.. and he needs money
He wouldn't care to go to jail.. he'll fit right in :supergay: he's use to bending over for his homo gay roomates.. lmao.. and playin someones bitch..You need him to go **** on a hi voltage electric fence or transformer instead..
the issues is BARS.. for women it's a place to shake wat they got.. for guys.. it's a meat market.. bet you if you ever bring a blow up doll to a bar.. half the guys will jump on the damm thing cause thats why they're there and the other half either has their Girl there or :supergay:
Well.. nice to know at least it simmered down.. wat you do now is get some chick whose all hurting * or play that role * and you purposely let her see the emails and wat not.. and see how she feels.. then when she freaks.. then say "you felt sorry for her.. she lost her baby" or something.. than ask her "sound familiar?? don't like it?? then don't do it"
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03-07-2005, 08:00 PM
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Originally Posted by GinoBeats
I've always wanted to round up a bunch of us from TSR and go take care of problems
Originally Posted by drifter240
Well.. nice to know at least it simmered down.. wat you do now is get some chick whose all hurting * or play that role * and you purposely let her see the emails and wat not.. and see how she feels.. then when she freaks.. then say "you felt sorry for her.. she lost her baby" or something.. than ask her "sound familiar?? don't like it?? then don't do it"
Anyways she's changed her email address and I guess this is the end of it.
If anyone wants the :supergay: email address its shaughan@mailcity.com Enjoy!
03-07-2005, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Low-Low
If anyone wants the :supergay: email address its shaughan@mailcity.com Enjoy!
:hah: Jokes.. at work.. can't link it to them yet
03-07-2005, 09:04 PM
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