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Dude that suxx - and some really good points were maid so I'll offer something a lil diff

1. if the mother really isnt and "earner/working" and you (the father) can show that you can offer a much better enviornment for the children, courts could easily sway your way and have been moving that way for about a decade now

2. ALLWAYS ALLWAYS ALLWAYS BE CALM, this shows your maturity, seriousness, ext... and will only further **** off yer ex, possibly at a time in front of "witnesses" adding to yer rep + showing her unstableness

3. Delete this thread, Im sure she or her friends know yer on here, so delete it or at least edit some shtuff you said, for obvious reasons you'll realize when yer calm

4. Record all future conversations with her, tell no one [as long as you are in the conversation - it is perfectly LEGAL to record it, it's only illegal to record third party] - this may come in handy as evidence against her character/stability, might exhonourate you, and now have something you can use to nail her *** for deffamation of character/slander/etc..

5. offer to have yerself evaluated (mentally speaking) to show yer "worth" and ask if she will voluntarily go herself for evaluation - if she says no, it could look bad against her - if she says yes and she's a lil loopy, it'll work againt her

6. dont just rely on yer legal council - do some reasearch yourself, look up other case files, find fathers online who have gone through yer shituation (there are forums for everything, so theres prolly one for this too)

7. be yerself - dont "play a role" while in supervised sessions - they can tell

that all I gots fer nows - hope that helps some

 
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LOL, I don't need to play a role, the place where I see my kids has realized that what has been said by her was bs. They realized that, 20 minutes into the first visit, and I'm guessing she knows that, since everything else that has been said, has been said since that day.