Have you ever felt so bad about something you felt like you needed to puke?
06-07-2007, 06:50 AM
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Have you ever felt so bad about something you felt like you needed to puke?
I do/did.
ok, heres the story, ill keep it as short as possible. ive been dating this girl i met in highschool for over 3 years now. thats 3 years with 2 break up/get back togethers. even still, 3 years, 3 years guys. keep in mind im only 19 1/2 but still 3 years. (ill be 20 in december.) weve been going pretty strong, despite a couple of breakups and some crazy arguments, but weve had some great times so far. yet, even though weve been back together since sometime in winter of 06(i forget the exact date), i havnt felt as strongly for her ya know. ok, so thats us in a very tiny nutshell. now, on to the reason i feel like puking. theres this other girl from high school im starting to realllllllyyy like being with. im not sure exactly how she feels but it cant be negative. i know that for sure. and i wanna expermient with other girls since im still young and ill only live once. however, i love my girlfriend so much, that i feel horrible that im falling so fast and hard for someone else. its driving me insane, and i dont know wtf to do about it. thank god i drive a camaro or else this situation would be 10 times worse. feedback would kickass. btw, i know i sounded kinda gay up there but try to ignore the fact)
ok, heres the story, ill keep it as short as possible. ive been dating this girl i met in highschool for over 3 years now. thats 3 years with 2 break up/get back togethers. even still, 3 years, 3 years guys. keep in mind im only 19 1/2 but still 3 years. (ill be 20 in december.) weve been going pretty strong, despite a couple of breakups and some crazy arguments, but weve had some great times so far. yet, even though weve been back together since sometime in winter of 06(i forget the exact date), i havnt felt as strongly for her ya know. ok, so thats us in a very tiny nutshell. now, on to the reason i feel like puking. theres this other girl from high school im starting to realllllllyyy like being with. im not sure exactly how she feels but it cant be negative. i know that for sure. and i wanna expermient with other girls since im still young and ill only live once. however, i love my girlfriend so much, that i feel horrible that im falling so fast and hard for someone else. its driving me insane, and i dont know wtf to do about it. thank god i drive a camaro or else this situation would be 10 times worse. feedback would kickass. btw, i know i sounded kinda gay up there but try to ignore the fact)
06-07-2007, 07:43 AM
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06-07-2007, 08:55 AM
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i dated a girl for a year and a half and i started to fall for another. i was only 16 at the time, no need to settle down. i haven't been dating her now for a while and have enjoyed being able to date and do what i want. hang out with the other girl don't get caught and try to see if she is worth it, that's all i got
06-07-2007, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted by ITSA6
i dated a girl for a year and a half and i started to fall for another. i was only 16 at the time, no need to settle down. i haven't been dating her now for a while and have enjoyed being able to date and do what i want. hang out with the other girl don't get caught and try to see if she is worth it, that's all i got
06-07-2007, 09:00 AM
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well just try to start to separate from your other girl yes it's hard but we all get over it, don't break up with her just see how she reacts when you don't do things as much as her and maybe she will think it is time for something different then you wouldnt feel so bad
06-07-2007, 04:53 PM
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If you have feelings for the other girl, then you really don't love the current girl. You have just been with the current girl so long that it has become a convienence and you are used to it. Drop her and move on.
06-07-2007, 05:10 PM
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PIIHP!!!
j/k, seriously, if your just with the chick now because like Jim said its convenience and your kinda "settled in", i would get on with it sooner or later, sleep on it is the best i can say now.
j/k, seriously, if your just with the chick now because like Jim said its convenience and your kinda "settled in", i would get on with it sooner or later, sleep on it is the best i can say now.
06-07-2007, 06:46 PM
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from a girls perspective: if you are starting to wonder about another girl and starting to have feelings for another girl, be a man and break up with your current girlfriend. It's the only fair thing to do for yourself and your girlfriend. It sucks but if it's meant to be, you'll get back together.
Are you just bored with your current girlfriend? You usually start wondering when things are rough or not interesting anymore.
Are you just bored with your current girlfriend? You usually start wondering when things are rough or not interesting anymore.
06-07-2007, 06:56 PM
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Hate to say it duder, but you need to break up with your current girl if you're still finding your mind wandering.
You may still love (read as: care about) her, but it seems that you don't "like" (read as: want to be with) her.
Besides, you've broken up twice now, that isn't a positive indication of your relationship's strength. You're not even old enough to go to Vegas, you've got tons of time to find the right girl... I hate to say it, but the one you're with doesn't sound like she's the one.
Time to move on, mang.
You may still love (read as: care about) her, but it seems that you don't "like" (read as: want to be with) her.
Besides, you've broken up twice now, that isn't a positive indication of your relationship's strength. You're not even old enough to go to Vegas, you've got tons of time to find the right girl... I hate to say it, but the one you're with doesn't sound like she's the one.
Time to move on, mang.
06-07-2007, 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Knuckle_Breaker ver.2.0
thank god i drive a camaro or else this situation would be 10 times worse.
But anyway... dude... theres no reason you should feel sick. you can do anything you want. If you are falling for this other girl hard, go for it. It might be the time of your life......... that you might miss if you don't go for it.
but yeah, if you take my advice be sure the 1st relationship is done and over.
good luck.p.s. my experience shows love as fake anyway. haha