If i were you id just ignore your mom completely, not even talk to her until she hands them keys back over that is ******** that you paid pretty much the whole thing off and they are doing that

calmly talk to her why it's so important for her that you play football,it's funny she's acting like you said you were quiting school, does she go to football with you?

Yea I dont get it, I could see if you were like all state or if you are gettin a free ride to college from football, but you didnt mention that you are. I was going to quit but my parents wouldnt let me because i was the only football but my parents person from my team to go all county my last year in midgets then my freshman year i broke my knee bad and it took me 2 years to get back on the field from therapy and after that i didnt get back into it i started but i wasnt a outstanding player again. I suggest just talking to her there is no reason for her to be like that, its like she is forcing you to do what she wants you to do and thats the worst thing in my opinion that parents do. Hell my dad wanted me to get a mustang because thats all he ever had, he had another thing coming there lol. I'm sure it will work out for yah man... good luck

yea, last night i just kept asking her why these were the consequences for what i did and basically she gave me no good reason at all and it finally came down to me askign if she was right because she was the mom and she said yes, so yea shes really messed up. but then she comes into my room at night still and says goodnight. i was like get the **** out of here. shes so two faced, its rediculous. and she was like, now im giving you chores to do since u dont have football, so my dad just told me to be like whats gonna happen if i dont do them.lol. im just gonna totally blow her off, my dad said not to eat dinner anymore and just ignore her and she will feel sorry cause after all i am her son, and if she wants to be like this forever then that sucks for her, cause she wont have anythign soon. o well, ill see how long this lasts. i start work on friday, actually its jsut an orientation but i get paid and stuff. it starts at 8 in the morning so ill just start walking there, and when she asks if i want a ride ill just say no.lol

let your mom kno ive got a 500 dollar bid for your car, lol

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she said she already has someone who will buy it, but im not gonna ever talk about it again because then it will seem like i dont care. she cant sell it so i dont really care.

she has deep control issues doesn't she

that's how my mom was. Thing is, she learned about the consequences of her own actions a little too late, and now I can barely stand to be around her. I would be perfectly content if she dropped off the face of the earth. Cause, basically, thats almost how it is now. She'll blow off xmas, bday, never call, write, etc.. but when she comes into visit her sister/brother/mother here, I have to go visit her, and she acts like there's nothing wrong between us. My dad can't even stand to be in the same building as her.

Time to teach your mom a lesson, by ignoring her and basically showing her you hate her guts she should change her ways. If she doesn't then to bad for her.

yea, today she asked if i wanted to go to lunch with her and my sister( my mom took off work early and went to lunch with my sister then took her to the airport, but she asked if i wanted to go, i was like no, then she drove by my friends house while we were outside talking and he waved and i turned away then she stopped and said she was going to the store and asked if i watned anything, i was just like no abd then she kpet talking and finally left and i never looked at her or anything. see how this goes, seems to be working pretty well so far.

yea just keeping doin that she will give in man, she will feel sorry

Why would you HAVE to go visit her? If you dont mind me askin.

That is what I was thinking, why not tell your mom to eat **** and die when she ask for a visit?

for the rest of the family that is there(my aunt, my uncles). Of course, when I do go, I usually do some antagonizing.


Besides that, as long as I make nicey, I'll get in her will for something.