Relationship problems need advice!
 

Ok, i know how dumb this sounds asking for this kind of help in a camaro forum but i figure i will get better advice here. Ok heres the story, I recently started seeing this girl shes cool and all but she is way to clingy, i have done things with her which now i regret badly cause now she wont leave me alone. She considers me her boyfriend which im not never even asked her :banghead: , At first when i met her i thought i liked her but now that i got to know her more i realize i really dont and shes not my type. I may have led her on but not to the point like she takes it. Shes always telling me "you better not leave me" and "your amazing you proofed to me that all guys arent the same" ???? Im like what the hell she really doesnt know me that well...I thought maybe it was just all in my head so tonight i went over to see her thinking its possible that i do like her but after tonight i know now for sure i dont. As i tried to leave her house she wouldnt leave me alone shes always touching me and all that i dont mind some touching but she is constantly touching me! I need to know the best way to tell her i dont like her. Ive tried already i told her i wasnt ready for any kind of relationship hoping that would work but instead she tells me, its ok we will just take it slower :banghead: I just dont have the well what you wanna say the balls to tell her straight out that i dont like her. I know she would be devistated! Ive never been in this kind of situation before, usally ill stick with the girl for a long time. But shes just not my type, please help!

wow dude that sucks though looks like ur either gonna be stuck with her or just tell her straight out, she doesnt seem like the type that will take it any other way, i think the best would be just to tell her straight out soon or it will just keep getting worse and she will probably just get more obsessed, well just my .02, but good luck

Thats what i was afriad of, but i think i got to man up and do it. I just rather not. lol this sucks...

Edit, btw thanks for the advice, it really did help.

I've seen that type of chick before. It's not so much as she's "in love" with you as she's in love with the idea of being in love. She has the feeling that she need's to have a serious relationship so bad as soon as a guy shows any intrest in her she jumps on him and tries to make it more than it really is. The longer it goes on the worse it's going to get and the harder she's going to take it. It's not going to be easy and she's not going to take it lightly but you need to cut it off right now. Don't let it go for a day longer. Don't worry though, as soon as she finds another guy she'll jump on him as well.
My wife had an old bf that was like that. He was telling her he loved her after like three day's of knowing eachother and they hadn't even been on a date or anything.
There's also a girl at my work that I can tell is like that as well.

get the **** outta dodge, she obviously doesn't get the hint, and anything you tell her is going to go through one side and out the other. Girls Can be Incredibly nuts, and she is apparently one of them. i personally would stay as far away from her, don't answer her calls, and don't talk to her, dont make eye contact. because if you come straight out with it, she is going to cry and guess who shes going to try and hug and cry on?? you, beacuse shes crazy, and then your going to end up sleeping with her again and then its all going to start over....

trust me.... girls like this don't understand "no" its like faux-rape.

Yeh well she just called me 3 times, i havnt answerd, i know that i need to brake it off but she makes it so difficult, i should of never slept with her, that was my mistake was thinking with the wrong head. And now she tells me she got me a christmas present. damn thats the last thing i needed to hear. i hate having feelings it blows...

We all make mistakes but leading her on would be wrong. You know he need to break it off, the sooner you do it the better you'll feel.

well im going to brain storm on how to tell her, i wont be easy, and she wont take it lightly, i just hope she doesnt seek revenge.

good luck either way man, who needs ******* when you've got a car as hot as that?

I know it sounds cheesy but when it comes to relationships, honesty is the best policy. Man up and tell her exactly what you wrote in your first post.

I would put my 2 cents in but I don't want to be a bad influence ...lol


p.s.

Most dumb psycho chicks think that if they destroy your nice car they will hurt your game and you will come running back in their arms! So I would park your car for a while and make sure you have a locking gas lid ;)

do what you gotta do ASAP! if she still dont get it, stop returning her calls and hanging out with her. tell her you have other things to do. seriously sometimes you HAVE to be a bit of a dick.

I was so about to say this!!!

Most dumb psycho chicks think that if they destroy your nice car they will hurt your game and you will come running back in their arms! So I would park your car for a while and make sure you have a locking gas lid.

punch her in the ovary.

No, you look at her and tell her your Ex who you had dated for a long time in the past, Died a few days ago.. and you dont want to be in any sort of relation ship... Or LOL, tell her you Gay...








J/k.