girls r hard to handle part 2
10-13-2005, 02:56 AM
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id have to say they are both idiots.
10-13-2005, 02:59 AM
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it takes 2 to tango, both are equally at fault.Pulling out is only about 20% effective (you have a better shot using a hose afterwards) She could have said "not without protection"and birth control (the pill) is only about 85% effective, condoms about 90%
10-13-2005, 03:27 AM
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Did he even state if he or she was using birth control? That might clear some animosity in here up
10-13-2005, 06:32 AM
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I still agree with the ones that say its not all his fault. It is definently a ******* 50/50 deal. She could of made sure there was protection just as easily as he could of. Pulling out is ******** and i know from experiance. But anyways yea she wanted it he wanted it they both should of made sure there was protection. It sucks and is a shity road to go down. I have done it already cause i didnt make sure i used protection. Just man up and see what she wants to do be it abortion or keep the kid or adoption even. And suport what you belive in as well. If you cant take care of the kid by your self like was said earlier get the parents involved witch sucks *** too but you really might need there help. Aight done ranting laters
10-13-2005, 08:46 AM
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Either kick her in the stomach, or push her down the stairs laying down.
Aight, now on the serious side:
Man, talk about being unlucky. Hell I remember one of my previous girlfriends and I went for about 6 months not using protection, and I didn't pull out, and she never got pregnant. We had sex multiple times almost every day, but when it'd get about a week before she normally started her period, we'd stop until after her period. We had a scare, and that changed everything. After that, it was birthcontrol, condoms, AND pulling out.
While everyone can scream about how stupid that was, I already know it, but at the same time, you gotta get in the right mindset that if you're going to play the mating game, becareful if you win the game! Considering that sex IS to reproduce, you won. If you're going to play and you don't want to win, you have to sabatoge the game (condoms, birthcontrol, ect). BUT, should you win (in your case, you already did) your entire point in life now is to take care of the rewards you've won. Man up, get the parents involved no matter what. Getting the parents involved is NOT an option. You think they'd appreciate finding out when her stomach starts getting big, "Oh by the way, did you get the memo? She's pregnant." No way, tell them immediately. If you can't do that, you're not mature enough to handle a child. You better do every possible thing you can to make that child's life the best that you can. If that means going to school full time, working full time, and not having a social life until the child is 12 years old, well that's your reward. But whatever you do, don't be a trash parent that neglects the needs or doesn't try hard enough.
Aight, now on the serious side:
Man, talk about being unlucky. Hell I remember one of my previous girlfriends and I went for about 6 months not using protection, and I didn't pull out, and she never got pregnant. We had sex multiple times almost every day, but when it'd get about a week before she normally started her period, we'd stop until after her period. We had a scare, and that changed everything. After that, it was birthcontrol, condoms, AND pulling out.
While everyone can scream about how stupid that was, I already know it, but at the same time, you gotta get in the right mindset that if you're going to play the mating game, becareful if you win the game! Considering that sex IS to reproduce, you won. If you're going to play and you don't want to win, you have to sabatoge the game (condoms, birthcontrol, ect). BUT, should you win (in your case, you already did) your entire point in life now is to take care of the rewards you've won. Man up, get the parents involved no matter what. Getting the parents involved is NOT an option. You think they'd appreciate finding out when her stomach starts getting big, "Oh by the way, did you get the memo? She's pregnant." No way, tell them immediately. If you can't do that, you're not mature enough to handle a child. You better do every possible thing you can to make that child's life the best that you can. If that means going to school full time, working full time, and not having a social life until the child is 12 years old, well that's your reward. But whatever you do, don't be a trash parent that neglects the needs or doesn't try hard enough.
10-13-2005, 09:29 AM
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Still saying, if your in a position (no pun intended) where someone trusts you to do something, and you undeniably fail to do what the person trusted you to do....you've ****** up. You didn't hold up YOUR side of the deal. Yeah there's obviously a known risk, and she's held accountable for that, but what you people fail to realize what I'm trying to say is that HE ****** up on HIS PART that she trusted him to take care of, which why i said he's made her life amazingly hard now, End of story.
I'm merely saying, in the end, he didn't do all of what he could have done to prevent it even given that it was, and 90% of the time is, an unplanned situation, he still didn't do his job.
And remember guys, next time your mechanic s up your car.....it's your fault too 
I'm merely saying, in the end, he didn't do all of what he could have done to prevent it even given that it was, and 90% of the time is, an unplanned situation, he still didn't do his job.
And remember guys, next time your mechanic s up your car.....it's your fault too
10-13-2005, 02:47 PM
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Why do you keep repeating what everyone else is saying? We all know he screwed up on his part but so did she. BOTH of them let the ball slip through their fingers and now it is time to pay their dues to biology.
10-13-2005, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted by 97'RS6-BucketTurd
lets say, we're playing baseball, and you bend down to tie your shoe, you start to lean up, and i throw the ball at your face. it hits your nose, breaking it, blood every where. and all i can say is "**** man....should've moved." When u didn't know the ball was coming till it hit you...
pretty much the same type situation your telling me the girl is partially responsible for not avoiding.
Would you take the blame for getting hit in the face with the ball? No way, u didn't even know i threw the damned thing. If you tell me you'd take any blame for it, you lie, and I'm going to laugh at you.
But! You knew we were playing baseball. So (using your method of reasoning) that means that you should've known the ball was coming? And it'd be your fault for not moving..? So i shouldn't feel as bad.
See where I'm coming from? How can u prevent something that you can't know is going to happen, and/or when is going to happen.
My point is SHE can't TELL when he's going to . plain and simple, she can guess...that's IT. just like in my example, you wouldn't know that i threw the ball till it hit you.
The ONLY way I'd say she were 50% responsible is if he blatantly said "I'm going to " and she didn't do anything about it.
pretty much the same type situation your telling me the girl is partially responsible for not avoiding.
Would you take the blame for getting hit in the face with the ball? No way, u didn't even know i threw the damned thing. If you tell me you'd take any blame for it, you lie, and I'm going to laugh at you.
But! You knew we were playing baseball. So (using your method of reasoning) that means that you should've known the ball was coming? And it'd be your fault for not moving..? So i shouldn't feel as bad.
See where I'm coming from? How can u prevent something that you can't know is going to happen, and/or when is going to happen.
My point is SHE can't TELL when he's going to . plain and simple, she can guess...that's IT. just like in my example, you wouldn't know that i threw the ball till it hit you.
The ONLY way I'd say she were 50% responsible is if he blatantly said "I'm going to " and she didn't do anything about it.
Make sence?
Plus "hell i didnt know you were fertile at this exact moment" could be easily have been said by him as well. If you honestly believe deep down inside that this was 1 persons fault and not the others and are not argueing just for the sake to argue then you my friend are an idiot.
10-13-2005, 04:19 PM
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everyone is responsible in some way. But until we hear from him what was going on, whether either of them were using any protection, or whether it was up to one or the other and that person didn't, or however it exactly went down, there's no point in deciding who is more to blame, or if in this situation, they are both equal.
10-13-2005, 04:33 PM
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I agree... one run on sentence isnt enough information for 17 paragraphs of argument
10-13-2005, 07:46 PM
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Didn't yo mamma ever tell you to wear a raincoat when it's wet? That applies to sex too, not just poor weather conditions.
When the heat turns up, cover up.
Wrap your pecker before you deck her.
Before you tap it, be sure you've wrapped it!
When the heat turns up, cover up.
Wrap your pecker before you deck her.
Before you tap it, be sure you've wrapped it!
10-13-2005, 08:57 PM
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Wow man that sucks your both to blame, but who cares whose to blame, whats gonna happen with the kid?
10-13-2005, 08:57 PM
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PS; Be shure its yours too
10-13-2005, 09:20 PM
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"Hey, just to make sure you're not a big ****, can we have a paternity test done sometime?"
I have to ask, was it the girl who was relationship material, or the girl who was hang around with and screw occasionally material?
I have to ask, was it the girl who was relationship material, or the girl who was hang around with and screw occasionally material?
10-13-2005, 09:56 PM
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i wanted to know too.. just waited for someone else to say somthing.. lol