Relationship problems need advice!
12-12-2006, 03:16 PM
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Im kinda in that situation now but worse. I dated the girl for a year straight. Shes a great person, but out personalities do not mesh AT ALL. I've broken up with her numerous times, but we have so many mutual friends its hard to just say "Im never seeing you again". Me and her are still close friends and she wants more, and wont give up lol.
I hope yours gets the picture lol.
I hope yours gets the picture lol.
12-12-2006, 03:24 PM
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Phate, find another girl and date her, and make sure the other one sees you with her. That usually slams the door on any 'comeback tours', if you know what I mean.
Of course, that involves FINDING a new girl. Or just 'casually' date one. Unfortunately, this can often backfire if the old girl is the jealous type. Or if the "Economy Principle" comes into play... if your demand is up (both her and the new girl want you) and your supply is down (the new girl has you), then she'll end up wanting you more. So it's a double-edged sword.
There is a science behind understand women. It just takes someone to put it into plain English.
Of course, that involves FINDING a new girl. Or just 'casually' date one. Unfortunately, this can often backfire if the old girl is the jealous type. Or if the "Economy Principle" comes into play... if your demand is up (both her and the new girl want you) and your supply is down (the new girl has you), then she'll end up wanting you more. So it's a double-edged sword.
There is a science behind understand women. It just takes someone to put it into plain English.
12-12-2006, 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted by TorqueDog
Phate, find another girl and date her, and make sure the other one sees you with her. That usually slams the door on any 'comeback tours', if you know what I mean.
Of course, that involves FINDING a new girl. Or just 'casually' date one. Unfortunately, this can often backfire if the old girl is the jealous type. Or if the "Economy Principle" comes into play... if your demand is up (both her and the new girl want you) and your supply is down (the new girl has you), then she'll end up wanting you more. So it's a double-edged sword.
There is a science behind understand women. It just takes someone to put it into plain English.
Of course, that involves FINDING a new girl. Or just 'casually' date one. Unfortunately, this can often backfire if the old girl is the jealous type. Or if the "Economy Principle" comes into play... if your demand is up (both her and the new girl want you) and your supply is down (the new girl has you), then she'll end up wanting you more. So it's a double-edged sword.
There is a science behind understand women. It just takes someone to put it into plain English.
I have a few people who I know want to date / have a fling with me. I might just pick the best one and have her find out. I just hate drama, and this is gonna cause a ton regardless.
12-12-2006, 05:14 PM
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We should have a Sticky, Titled, "Women Problems? Ask James."
LOL, Nice to have some one like ya around James!! LOL Women at the ages of0-20 Can Seem like Toys.... But some of them are loaded... And will Sink Ya.. LOL And some are like the chinesse Finger Traps.. once you put yourself in one.. you aint comin' back out with out a Fight... LOL
BTW, Get a Locking Gas CAP...
LOL, Nice to have some one like ya around James!! LOL Women at the ages of0-20 Can Seem like Toys.... But some of them are loaded... And will Sink Ya.. LOL And some are like the chinesse Finger Traps.. once you put yourself in one.. you aint comin' back out with out a Fight... LOL
BTW, Get a Locking Gas CAP...
12-12-2006, 05:39 PM
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hahaha sticky fo sho. ive been in the same situation as some of you except i was the other person who didn't realize the girl didn't like me as much as i thought. lol it turned out good actually...she's like one of my best friends now and i can talk to her about anything. now my problem is i like my friends sister....
12-12-2006, 06:46 PM
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sounds like we have all been in this situation at one point i know i sure as hell have but luckily right after all the crap i went on vacation to england for 2 months with no contact and that killed it luckily
12-12-2006, 07:21 PM
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Me and her are done now. Shes sad but she doesnt hate me, we are staying friends, so i doubt revenge is what she will want, shes still on the nuts but now she doesnt sound as obbsessed, now time to try and get the girl i really do like. hell yes!
12-12-2006, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted by bLkWdOw SS
HOLY **** THIS WAS HER RESPONSE This is really starting to get to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok listen it was my fault not yours i did alot of thinking last night and i saw that i was moving into this way to fast maybe it's cause i didn't want a serious relationship and i didn't want to loose you but i looked and i've just been pushing you away it's my fault i still want this but like you said slowly and this time i'll take it slow i just need to learn to be patient javier i really wanna be with you it was my fault not yours i'm making it go fast and i don't want that anymore we just need to give it a day at a time and i'm sorry i jumped in so quickly again. But ilike you said before i don't want to be without on terms of us not being together. I'll take it slow i swear. Just lets try this again please?
Ok listen it was my fault not yours i did alot of thinking last night and i saw that i was moving into this way to fast maybe it's cause i didn't want a serious relationship and i didn't want to loose you but i looked and i've just been pushing you away it's my fault i still want this but like you said slowly and this time i'll take it slow i just need to learn to be patient javier i really wanna be with you it was my fault not yours i'm making it go fast and i don't want that anymore we just need to give it a day at a time and i'm sorry i jumped in so quickly again. But ilike you said before i don't want to be without on terms of us not being together. I'll take it slow i swear. Just lets try this again please?
uhhh ohhh obsessive compolsive!!!!! your fked!!!
good luck 
12-12-2006, 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted by ryann
why hasnt neone jus suggested running her over w/ yr. maro. geesh.